February 22, 2014 In 2014 Winter Olympics, care, Garmin, God, Gold Medals, heart, help, Iouri Podladtchikov, Life, Love, Map, Russia, Sochi, travel, Trip, YOLO
Affirmation: I am in awe of the guidance God sends me, through people as I travel down a new and difficult path.
What is needed in order to navigate through new territory? Lewis and Clark, Columbus and Magellan and Dr. Livingston are a few examples of pioneers who headed out into the world without any foreknowledge of what lied ahead and created trails for others to follow. There are now maps for most anywhere one wants to go. There is even Google Earth, where we can examine almost every square foot of our planet without leaving our home.
When my daughter, Ellen, moved to London I desperately wanted to see where she would be living but flying over there was not in our plans. She sent me a video from Google Earth with her apartment circled in red. I could then move the cursor around on the page and see everything she could see from her front window. It was miraculous. Since then I have occasionally gone to the site to see the areas where I resided when I was younger. It was fascinating to see how the areas had changed and to share the photos of the neighborhood with my children or with my friends.
Yes, it seems as if the whole world is mapped out and we aren’t in need of pioneers any longer. Even the moon and Mars have “rovers” with cameras on them. Of course there is the rest of the Universe “where no man has ever gone before.” I don’t believe many of us will be faced with an adventure into outer space. In addition to outer space, however, there are also the Olympics. Right now, the 2014 Winter Olympics are taking place in Sochi Russia. No one needed a map to get to Sochi and no one is following a geographical path that hasn’t been carefully laid out but these gifted, dedicated and determined young people are definitely blazing new trails. The new gold medal winner for the Men’s Snow Boarding Half Pipe, Iouri Podladtchikov, not only performed an almost flawless run, he created and executed a new maneuver called the YOLO. The men and women skiers and skaters broke all time speed records, and the Russian figure skating pairs gold medalists Tatiana Volosozhar and Maxim Trankov, the 2013 world champions, broke at least four world records with their performances. There were also many other records set. All the athletes needed guidance to reach the peak of their skill. They went higher and further along the path of their craft than anyone had gone before. Their coaches and families helped them lay out the map for their successes.
I’ve always loved a map. Maybe it’s because it’s a little like a puzzle, a maze which can help get you to your set destination. I’ve usually been the navigator when my husband and I traveled. My expertise wasn’t always in evidence. For example, from my reading of the map, I once insisted we were are on the right road to reach the main highway when it dead-ended in someone’s driveway. At one time, I used to contact AAA for little map booklets that had a different section of the road on each page to lay out our path. I’m sure they don’t have them anymore. Now, my husband and I don’t use maps at all. First we graduated to Map-quest and would have sheets of paper listing the twists and turns and the distances and the estimated arrival time. We even used Map-quest for one of our European trips. It was a lot easier than trying to read maps in a foreign language. Then we went to a Nuvi or a Garmin and we had audible turn by turn instructions. I must say in the beginning it would seem to me the device would sometimes take me to my final destination by way of another continent. Now, we have the smart phone. The technology now seems to be much more accurate and I can rely on it anywhere I travel. I’ve also become so used to having a computer map on my dashboard that I feel “lost” when I’m in a car without one even if I’m going around my neighborhood. Recently, however, I have had to chart a new path.
There wasn’t a map or a Garmin for this journey. My 91 year old mother left the hospital after her first two surgeries ever, a hip replacement and a pacemaker and was admitted to a rehab unit. I needed a map or an audio guide. I needed any direction and guidance that was available and there was very little “out there.” I did do some research on the web to determine the best facility in the area and I did make the necessary phone calls to make sure that’s where she was admitted but after that I felt like I had just landed on an alien planet, not country, but a planet beyond our solar system. I have never been so intimately involved in the care of a seriously ill individual, and to be honest my mom has led a very independent lifestyle up until her fall. I wish someone wise and experienced had taken my hand and led me step by step down this road.
I wish I knew in the beginning of this journey what I know now. I’ve prayed for years for dignity for my mom and mother in law in their old age. Now, I’m seeing what dignity can look like and may not look like. After entering the rehab, mom contracted C.diff. One more thing I knew nothing about, another huge detour on the road. I’ve reached out to God and to everyone I know. I actually sent an email to several of my communities that was titled “Help!” Help has come and hopefully will keep coming. Help not just for my mom but for me, the main caregiver. Yes, I am seeing the blessings. Some of the best help has been what I now consider to be “God’s Garmin’s.” They are all those people in the know who have taken the time and effort to share with me what I need to be doing and in what direction I should be going.
When Sandy and I traveled to Ireland several years ago, we found the most joyful part of the trip was getting lost because we would stop and ask an always delightful, friendly Irish man or woman for directions. We stopped once on a back road and were invited in for tea! That’s been my experience here with my mom and her illness, the people who have reached out to me explaining the path best chosen have brought clarity and joy to a very frightening and strange road. I’ve decided there is very seldom an easy way through chronic illness or the dying process but like all our adversities there are blessings to be found and usually, they come in the form of loving, caring people who take our hands and our hearts and lead us along the path of what we call life. I like to think of them as God’s Garmin, audibly directing us down the road to our final destination, Peace.