Landsbury, Jessica Fletcher was renowned for her sleuthing abilities. The series ran for twelve seasons and in each
episode, Jessica was somehow involved in solving a very mysterious murder. She did this because of her remarkable
ability to notice and remember all the little details that led up to the
crime. I was in awe of her ability. Certainly, she’s not the only sleuth to have
amazing powers of observation. In my
opinion the most famous of all characters with this ability is Sherlock. Yes, Sherlock Holmes. I’ve always loved the works written about him
and Doctor Watson. I mustn’t be the only
one considering there never seems to be a time when there isn’t some sort of
series or new movie about the famous British detective.
that I would not become a sleuth. I
don’t pay close attention to the daily minutiae that occurs in my life. I have a tendency to see the bigger picture.
Sometimes I think it’s simply because I’m going too fast. Have you noticed how different a street or a
neighborhood appears when you walk through it versus when you ride through
going to for over thirty years. She
turned to me and pointed out a new logo they had designed. It was hung on one of the walls and
practically covered half the wall.
“Wow,” she exclaimed, “that is beautiful. I wonder when they created that?” she questioned. “At least twenty five years ago,” I
replied. She didn’t believe me but when we checked with the owner, we found out
it had been there for well over twenty years.
She had just never noticed it before.
She hadn’t been ready to see it until this visit.
a saying some attribute to the Buddha even though that’s not true but whoever
said it presents us with an interesting concept. When we are ready and only when we are ready
will we learn what we need to learn. How
many times have you heard someone state that they wish they had known about
something before now? They might have
been given the information many times but they didn’t hear it. They couldn’t hear it until it was the right
“What do you have the most difficulty remembering?” I have a lot of
difficulty remembering the dates of significant events, like when my children
graduated or when they married. I have
to have it written down to know the right answer. I am very envious of people who can recall
that information without hesitation. I’d
love to be someone who remembered everything I ever learned. My husband, Sandy, is amazing when it comes
to recalling information. He can still
remember most of the science he studied in pharmacy school. He remembers dates and historical facts to
name just some of his recall. Not
me! Thank heavens for Google! I don’t,
however, get upset with myself when I fail to recall that which I am trying to
uncover from the recesses of my brain. I
am aware, however, that I am aging and sometimes that presents physical
challenges to the brain. I desperately
hope that’s not the reason I’m not recalling the information I’m seeking. With that caveat in mind, I have learned that
what is really important to me and that which I need to know, I usually do.
I needed some extra guidance. I was
concerned at the end of the session that I hadn’t written everything down about
which I was told. When I voiced my
concern to the teacher, she told me not to be concerned, I would remember that
which I needed to remember and it was true.
The rest of the stuff just drifted away.
When I need that information, I am sure it will come to me. It usually does.
life’s challenges arrive just when I need them most. I don’t think I’d receive them if I weren’t
actively looking. I can’t get the answer
if I’m not willing to open the book, to check on the computer or to believe
that the solution or even better, the miracle is out there somewhere and I need
to wait with open arms the “teacher” for that situation.
once a week. One week recently I noticed
some delightful feathers she had strung along the mantle. They were all different shades of blue and
fluttered in the light breeze of the room.
“When did you put those up? I asked. You probably guessed the answer, “Several
weeks ago.” Once again I was
grateful I didn’t need to make my living by being intensely aware of my
surroundings. I am gentle with myself. I remind myself that it’s OK not to be able
to remember everything. If I remain open
that which I need will come to me, either through a deliberate effort or
through Divine intervention. I remind
myself to relax, to breathe and to embrace the concept that all is exactly as
it’s supposed to be at this very moment and that might include not having the
answer to all of my questions.